Love and Relationships

You learn when you date

p_20160625_222512-01.jpegDo you know how good it is to date someone who you have a lot of things in common? What more to date someone who just wanted a simple coffee date with a lot of questions in mind? You don’t have to collate all the answers and all the solutions in this world my dear, all you need is your lending ears.

Here are the two things I learned after dating my friend Darah.

Maybe the right love will just come to you when you don’t anticipate.

Maybe the best love to receive is the love you don’t assume.

  1. Love is not always a two way street.

You cannot throw kindness into the world and expect that it will bounce back to you “asap” (as soon as possible). You cannot share what is left from you and expect people to share more than what they can give.

In short, it is not always give and take.

Most of the time, people just take everything from you. You, on the other hand, is willing to share until you feel drain and empty.

That’s the reason why there is the word unconditional love; sharing without any expectations. It’s what God give to you and to me when he was crucified and died for us.

We learn it the hard way most of the time. It is something we learn along the way, it’s a process; it’s something that comes with maturity as we grow old.

Life is not always a two way street but I pray that you see the beauty of it. I pray that you reach the point where it is okay if the world cannot give what you “THINK” you earned. I don’t know how but I hope you realize that you are too blessed to be stressed for setting your expectations too high.

Just think how it can magically transform you when you know how it feels to love unconditionally.

Maybe the right love will just come to you when you don’t anticipate.

Maybe the best love to receive is the love you don’t assume.

There are a lot of blessings in this world, don’t focus into one.

Not because the person you expect to give you the world cannot reciprocate the love, you will let it bother you for the rest of your life.

Grow up sweetheart, the right man will come at the right time. He may either be a friend or a loved one.

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well in fact, they just reminded you of the thing you have at the first place.

  1. You need to know you are worthy.

I mean, there are different types of people you will meet in your life.

Some people will actually add things to your life that you thought is missing. Not that I am saying it’s bad, but some of them actually use this to get what they want from you.

They fill you in with the things that want to hear until you fall and forget who you are.

You end up feeling worthless after and the only person you will think of to complete you is the person you thought has filled you up; well in fact, they just reminded you of the thing you have at the first place.

You are worthy my dear.

You don’t need somebody to say you are capable to do this and that; you are actually capable with or without them.

The only thing they have is that they know your weakness and they know how you wanted it badly.

So I hope you don’t get blinded with what other people say. Know that you are capable. Know that you are worthy.

Know that you can actually decide on your own.

Pray for wisdom Brave Soul!

God Bless 🙂

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